Saturday, July 17, 2010

Knock - Knock I'm Looking To Marry . .



Well.. Do you think.. The title is quite strange,,,  Of course it is..!!

This is the quote which came to my mind.. When I think of the  “MARRIAGE SYSTEM“  we follow in INDIA . Young girls.. As in girls when they pass 22, 23, 24.. it’s always been an procedure they are supposed to follow to get married

Step 1 : Take an photo (Where physical appearances plays an role)

Step 2 : Pass them to matrimonial websites , Relatives etc etc..
(Gosh ! does it sound the girls are being promoted.. we are not products…)

Step 3 : Prepare horoscope.. (Where an unknown guy tells about my future.. sounds funny… but matured parents we are not matured to understand it.)

Step 4 : Learn cooking . .blah blah blah.. Mom always says most important is cooking.. cooking is just an basic  necessity not an major criteria.. (I feel at times are they preparing me as an full time servant for someone.. lol.. )

Step 5 : Status , Educational Background , Looks, caste . .Dark or fair ..

Step 6 : Highlighting the positives of an girl . . 

Step 7 : Finally set to sell..


Well.. I do agree that marriage has to happen for a girl.. but does not it sound.. How foolish is the idea to find an life partner who is gonna be heart and soul of the girl..

As far as I concern.. Marriage is all about truthfulness, love , care, emotions, understanding , Of course money is important.. A good job.. Carrier match..

Am really confused.. Where is all our mind.. what are we looking for in the name of marriage ? If the procedure continues.. INDIAN girls have to keep an banner on hand telling “KNOCK KNOCK I AM LOOKING TO MARRY” 

But what does it deal with the horoscope... status, caste, color, .. I really don’t understand..!!!! Does it favoring all the couples. Some do stay happy just by luck.. Many do stay happy by sacrificing. . Rests are on the entrance of Court for Divorce. It’s time to think.. Time for the freedom to choose the best.. And save the rest of the life.. Girl's WAKE UP!!!!

(This post may sound to be Ridiculous but it’s an truth.. !! )